sujop I find it’s best to buy from AliExpress and file a dispute in cases like this. I was able to get the correct cables and CAN box sent + partial refund by filing a dispute.
Always ask for photos of what they will send beforehand as it can come in handy when disputing. In my case I had told them it was the wrong harness and CAN box but they decided to ship anyways.
If you go down this route, remember that you won’t be getting any help from the seller for any other problems.