doozy im just afraid that Dudu would do the real "passthrough" without volume control and second option with no passthrough which is horrible, sound is strange even with dsp effects off.
I wouldn't say it's against SQ, doesn't make any difference if the volume control is done on headunit or DSP. Signal with "passthrough" just now is excellent, according to measurements S/N is well below 110dB, THD is negligible. There isn't much difference (surely not audible) between usb and optical (given optical is always 48kHz in reality).
Optical passthrough as it's now isn't the weakest link in the chain. Your amps have much worse S/N...
Again, if you really want to have bit perfect, use USB.