dudu-lai
thanks dudu-lai; I have contacted many Medeke shops or sites. I usually get the reply go back to where you purchased the head units from.
I have done this, my contact is Tyler on Alibaba, and he has now stopped responding.
His advice was to put the head unit in expert mode, go to rear view camera and turn on front camera switching. I had already done this, but it will not function without that wiring harness. @2tension has one, and I asked if he could send me detailed photos so I could get one made, but he has not responded.
So I sent an email to johnny@medeke.com who apparently is the CEO and he has not responded.

I dont know what else to do??
Do you know any sales persons that could help?
It is very frustrating to be honest. The product is great, and this forum is wonderful, but I am starting to think after sales support is not flash....
So if you have ideas dudu-lai i would love to hear them! :-)